Judging other’s interests is an unfair way to categorize a person
Everyone has an interest that they would never think of sharing with someone they are not completely comfortable with. Some examples may be witchcraft or music in a different language or even Shawn Mendes and Camilla Cabello. They are often called “guilty pleasures” to make it seem as if one is better than what their interests may depict them as. Although one’s interests are not who they are as a person, society has made it seem that way for decades now and with the rise of social media, it has only worsened over the years. People are negatively viewed because of what they like and it forms a type of stereotype around them.
Social media has only brought about platforms in which others can judge each other for unknown or usually ridiculous reasons. Twitter is one app that immediately comes to mind as it is one of the most destructive environments when it comes to just about anything related to the internet. Twitter and other social media are well known for housing different communities of people who have similar interests. It is beneficial for those who are labeled as weird to find others who may have the same hobbies or likes, and for the most part, everyone has stayed within their communities. However, as of late, there have been specific interests that are targeted due to the overwhelming popularity some of them have gained.
One interest that has gained an enormous amount of backlash is K-pop and Korean music as well as the interest in the culture as a whole. Korean pop music has gained an immense amount of popularity in America over the past few years, and it has allowed many Americans to learn a little bit about the culture as well; however, those who enjoy the music have been getting a lot of hate recently. Not necessarily from companies or other music industries, but more so from peers and others who do not completely understand what K-pop actually is. Often people are too embarrassed to admit or show anyone that they are interested in this type of music, and it is primarily due to the stigma that has been built around it. This applies to any other interest that a majority of society has deemed unusual.
Another example that is a bit older than the one mentioned before, is the hate that Justin Bieber fans endured in the early 2000s. Being someone who did not like him meant that they were more cool than those who did, and eventually that caught on. While social media was not as prevalent then, if anyone had any interest in him, they would often hide it to the public. This was more of a case in which others wanted to seem better than the majority by belittling a popular artist rather than not understanding the interest.
Often times when an interest is ridiculed, it is usually due to some sort of unreliable opinion that society has conjured because of a few differences that others may find unusual. This opinion spreads and this interest is now shunned amongst most. This trend happens often and is not unusual in the slightest. While this is a common process of thought, for the most part, it is unfair. To judge someone for something they really find joy in just creates this barrier between two people that could possibly be best friends. Interests do not define a person the same way as their personality does. Hopefully, in the near future, this trend won’t be as popular as it is now, but do not think the absolute disappearance of it will ever happen. Judging people by their first words and/or looks is something that has been ingrained in society for a long time now, and is not going anywhere for awhile, but as human beings, the ability to be more open to new interests, opinions, and experiences is not impossible.
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John • Dec 18, 2019 at 12:17 pm
Honestly, almost nobody simply dislikes K-pop/ Korean culture “fans” for it being Korean. most of the bad reputation Korean culture gets is because of toxic fans that are quick to attack anybody that talks negatively about the topic, even each other. the gatekeeping plus the sheer obsession most of them have with it is annoying. even I, who reads Korean webcomics, am not interested in entering the community that likes it because of that fact.
MK • Dec 27, 2021 at 11:36 am
that’s not true lol. there’s no toxic fans that attend our school, those are just twitter demons. plus, i don’t listen to boy groups, and i enjoy the music because it’s honestly way more refreshing and creative than other forms of art to me. plus, people who say “kpop isn’t my taste” aren’t always really realizing why that isn’t a comprehensive statement, as all kpop songs sound different; if you like rock, there’s rock kpop songs, if you like indie, there are indie bands, if you like rnb, there’s a loooot of rnb. it’s only really mainstream groups that adhere to “pop” and less and less people stay interested in those groups lol. personally i stopped listening to bts after they released pop music, before that they had a storyline through their music about taboos such as abuse and mental health to bring awareness to it, were underground rap artists, and used topics such as psychology to delve deeper into their songs… now they’re just really cheesy. it’s okay if others like them, but it’s just that that pop-y aspect i don’t enjoy. i listen to many other groups that are less popular and enjoy their authenticity.
amatos guy • Dec 11, 2019 at 12:59 pm
This articles seems to imply that people dislike k-pop fans because of the music itself. They don’t, at least for the most part. People dislike the fans for their obsession with Korean culture. Those “fans” basically ostracize actual Koreans from social interactions by viewing them as something more like a tourist attraction than a person. Those types of fans in particular deserve their title of “koreaboos,” but obviously this doesn’t apply to everyone who has ever listened to k-pop. I just think it’s important to understand both sides of a situation like this before publishing an article about a subject that could be considered by some people as sensitive.
darkstripe • Dec 11, 2019 at 10:05 am
why do all the recent metea media articles sound like they’re trying to talk down to us? like we’re 6th graders or something. you guys don’t need to explain everything to us; y’all aren’t writing a physics textbook
MK • Dec 27, 2021 at 11:38 am
must be some smart 6th graders if they take physics XD
Emma M Kauppila • Dec 4, 2019 at 6:43 am
Hey Brandt! And Shawi!
Facepalm • Dec 3, 2019 at 9:02 am
Preach!